[VC] F-ck January. We start today.

Month three, and I’ve pivoted about 17 times this year. How’s your 2025 going?

Hi Reader,

Here’s the highlight reel of my first two months:

• I came into the year carrying the grief of a huge ending.
• Set an ambitious business goal, only to lose steam by mid-Jan.
• Had the worst birthday in my unblocked memory.
• And two weeks ago, we lost a beloved member of our family … Muffin.

Losing The Muffinator was my limit. It was the first time I held a living creature as they passed, and that moment permanently altered my brain chemistry.

So I took time. Time for myself, my business, my family.

• I’ve been planning more.
• Writing more.
• Playing more.
• Meeting more people—and even (grab your pearls, babes) seeing them in person. ME! Peopling!!

I closed out February surrounded by incredible women (and Alex). And between the ​Upper Left Ladies​ I spent yesterday with and my Business Cousins that I spend every Sunday with planning my week, my ember started glowing again.

In March, I’m making it my mission to fill my cup. 🍵

And when I say fill, I mean overflow. 🌊

Every day this month, I’m dedicating myself to one task that boosts my confidence, my business, my joy—whatever needs tending to.

I’m calling it 31 Days of Filling My Cup (Because If I Don’t, I’ll Crash Out by April 1st).

Catchy, right? 😂😂 Want to join me?

Today’s task is simple: Commit to showing up. That’s it.

I’ll drop the full list at the bottom of these emails all month so we can track progress. Feel free to hold me accountable, and if you’re on my Violent Confirmation Daily list, I’ll return the favor.

If you want to join the daily for this month and check it out, click here.

If you don't, no worries—just do something every day that genuinely benefits your life (and not just 31 days of delicious treats, though I support that too).

Anyway, I’m off to update my “Haters Who Are Winning” playlist with some Bhad Bhabie tracks. I told you that caption would make sense later

Emailed with equal measures of love, rage, appreciation, & respect,
Peya 😏.

31 Days of Filling My Cup ​
​(Because If I Don’t, I’ll Crash Out on April 1st)

✔️ Day 1: Commit to yourself that you’ll do this challenge.